Chelsea Handler and Jo Koy are going their separate ways. The former Chelsea host, 47, shared through Instagram on Monday that she and Koy have split. Posting a video that the 2 deliberate to proportion on their one-12 months anniversary, Handler wrote withinside the caption, "It is with a heavy coronary heart to announce that we've determined collectively that it's far fine for us to take a damage from our courting proper now." A supply tells PEOPLE that the ones near the pair do wish that is a transient situation. In her touching Instagram post, Handler informed enthusiasts, "I recognize a lot of you had been invested in our love, and I desired to explicit to you the way plenty that intended to each of us. How plenty it nonetheless means. And how plenty I now agree with in love for everyone in every one of us." She saluted Koy and stated he "blew my coronary heart open with love and due to him, my lifestyles revel in has modified forever." Added Handler: "To be cherished and loved via way of means of @jokoy has been one of the finest items of my life. He renewed my religion in men, in love, in being 100% who I am, and I've in no way been extra constructive for the future." In an open message to Koy, Handler informed him, "You blew my creativity open, my lust for running difficult again, being on the street again, and also you jogged my memory who I changed into and continually have been, and my toes have in no way been extra firmly planted withinside the ground." "This isn't finishing. It's any other beginning, and it is a consolation to recognize that I am nonetheless cherished and love this guy the manner the solar loves the moon and the moon loves the solar. YOUR PERSON IS COMING," Handler wrote, finishing with, "So, please preserve to root for each of us, due to the fact you in no way recognize what lifestyles will convey, and let's first begin via way of means of all going to the theater on August fifth to shop for tickets to Jo's new film EASTER SUNDAY and Filipino PRIDE! Let's go!" Handler and Koy, 51, had been brought via way of means of a mutual pal nearly twenty years ago. Koy then went directly to make everyday appearances on Handler's former E! show, Chelsea Lately, which ran from 2007 to 2014. Handler currently served as a visitor host for Jimmy Kimmel Live, making enthusiasts enthusiastic about her ability to go back to late-night time television. Handler and Koy first sparked relationship rumors in September once they had been noticed searching comfy at a Los Angeles Dodgers game. She then published approximately being in love, however, she hid Koy's identification at the time. "Just sitting right here in Mallorca considering how thankful I am to have such a lot of humans that I love in my lifestyles, to stay the lifestyles I do and to be taking place excursion doing what I love," she captioned an Instagram post, which featured an image of herself acting content. The comic continued, "And that I'm in the end in love, with the fine type of man there is. There is a wish for everyone! That type of stuff." Handler made the pair's courting Instagram reputable days later as she shared pics, one in every of which featured the twosome kissing. "He's on an excursion, I'm on an excursion, on occasion we excursion collectively," she captioned her post, adding, "#VaccinatedAndHorny #FunnyIsFunny. All coming to a metropolis close to you!" On her Dear Chelsea podcast in October, Koy — who's additionally a comic — joined Handler to have a candid communication approximately their courting. While they agreed their chemistry changed into "amazing" from the beginning, Handler did not begin to think about Koy romantically due to the fact he had "brother energy." Never omit a story — join up for PEOPLE's lose each day e-newsletter to live updated at the fine of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy movie star information to forcing human hobby stories. "You have a variety of comparable features that my brother had," she informed Koy, referencing her older brother, Chet, who died in 1984. "So, in lots of ways, like I simply experience so absolutely safe. And I experience like, 'oh, that is family,' like I've continually felt that manner approximately you, that you are family. I simply did not need to f--- you before." Handler started on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon in October and she "fell in love at the age of 46." As a result, she now has a "wish for everyone in this world." "One day I simply regarded at [Jo] and I thought, 'Oh this is my man!' " she recalled. "So he is like my fine friend after which I add, you recognize, get to have intercourse with him. … Fun time!" "Their pals are hoping they could nonetheless paintings it out. But if anything, it is clean their courting has modified them each for the better," the supply says